You’ve been looking at houses, dealing with potential buyers, managing the purchase of your new home in Bolton & Bury and selling your old place, and now it’s finally sinking in that a big move is coming. But it’s a house move with children!
Even if you’ve found your dream home in Bolton & Bury, the whole experience can still be highly stressful, especially when you’re dealing with a house move with children. Uprooting your life might make sense to you, whether it’s for a new career opportunity, to be closer to family, or for a necessary lifestyle change. Your kids, however, may not be as understanding since everything they know and are comfortable with is about to change. But the process of a house move with children doesn’t need to be a nightmare for the whole family and Cardwells Estate Agents has plenty of tips you can use to help the move go as smoothly as possible.
7 Tips for a Smooth House Move With Younger Kids
1. Tell Your Children As Soon As Possible
Some parenting experts recommend telling your children that you will be moving home, as soon as you can. It may be difficult to hide for very long anyway, as you’ll most likely have potential buyers viewing your house, and your children will pick up on the fact that something is going on.
You don’t want to hide anything from them because that will only add to the stress for all of you, so tell them early on to help them feel included.
If you feel it’s appropriate and your child wants to, you could also involve them and make it more exciting by letting them help tidy and prepare their bedroom for viewings. However, some experts recommend only telling your child around a month before the move, as it gives them enough time to prepare, but not too much time to ponder on it for too long.
Whatever you decide, make sure you keep them informed and feel as though they’re involved in the process.
2. Allow Them to Get Upset
It may be heartbreaking to watch, but when your children cry or throw tantrums, you need to remember this kind of reaction is normal and to let them be upset. Their entire lives are changing, and the move may be separating them from friends, beloved family members like grandparents, or a childminder they have known their whole lives. Be understanding rather than angry that they aren’t accepting the changes right away. Each child is different and accepts change at their own pace, but it usually takes around six months for kids to get comfortable with their new life in a new place.
3. Talk About What Will Remain the Same
With so much change happening, the stress can be overwhelming for your children. Instead of focusing on what’s going to be different, remind them of everything that will stay the same. Their rooms may be different, but all their belongings will be the same. Their school may be different, but their after-school activities will stay the same. It may still be hard for them to focus on what’s the same, so do your best to remind them as much as you can.
4. Keep Your Old Routines
Just because you’re in a new place, it doesn’t mean your old routines should change. Remember, you need to keep some aspects of your old life constant for your children to help them adjust, and one great way of doing that is to keep at-home routines going. If you have a family game night, keep that consistent. If they have specific after-school routines, make sure to follow them as best you can, even if some aspects change slightly.
5. Get Everyone Ready
Don’t let moving day sneak up on you unprepared! Starting the moving process as early as possible will help avoid a last-minute rush to pack and clean and will make your whole family feel prepared.
It’s also helpful to make a ‘moving week plan’ with your family, down to the last detail, including what meals you’ll eat and where, who will be travelling in which car, and which belongings they can bring for the car journey.
It’s also useful to pack an overnight bag for everyone for both the last night in your old home and the first night in your new one, so you don’t have to worry about immediately unpacking after a long day when you get in.
6. Have ‘To Do’ Lists
If your kids are old enough to handle simple jobs, create to-do lists for them to help them feel included and get some of the easier tasks off your own list. They can help with packing up their own belongings into colour-coded boxes or help with cleaning. If you have a to-do list, and they have one as well, it will feel like you’re all in this together.
7. Let Your Children Voice Their Opinions
Giving your kids a say in the entire moving and packing process will help them feel like they have more stability and control over the changes in their environment.
Ask them what their opinions are about things like what to pack and how to decorate their new rooms, but also make sure that they feel heard and considered.
But, it’s not enough to just ask – you must also follow through and listen to make them feel comfortable and to ensure your house move with children is as smooth as possible.
Get Expert Advice
A house move with children doesn’t have to be stressful! For helpful advice on all aspects of moving home in Bolton & Bury, contact our friendly team at Cardwells Estate Agents and we will be delighted to help. You can call us on 01204 381281 or 0161 761 1215 or email us at [email protected] or [email protected].
In the meantime, we’ve answered some of your common questions about moving home with children.
Frequently Asked Questions About Moving With Children
How can I prepare my child for a house move?
Involve your child in the moving process as much as possible, allowing them to help with packing and decision-making. Talk openly about the move, addressing their concerns and explaining what to expect.
What if my child is upset about moving?
It’s normal for children to experience a range of emotions during a move. Offer reassurance, empathy, and plenty of love and support. Maintain familiar routines as much as possible to create a sense of stability.
How can I help my child adjust to a new home?
Encourage your child to explore their new surroundings and make new friends. Create a welcoming space for them in their new bedroom and involve them in decorating decisions. Spend quality time together as a family to build strong bonds.
Should I change my child’s school after a move?
Consider the distance to the new school, your child’s age, and the impact of changing schools on their social and academic life. If possible, visit the new school beforehand and discuss your child’s needs with the headteacher.
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